For the last several years I’ve been approached by Ashley Madison to help them promote their website. I’ve always turned them down immediately – telling them I would NEVER support a company who’s goal is to get married people to cheat. They actually MAKE MONEY off cheating spouses. No thank you, I will have nothing to do with this.
Ashley Madison is a “married dating service for discreet encounters”. Like I said, vile. The “dating” site helps connect married or “attached” individuals for the soul purpose of having an affair.
The site may have sunk to an all new low, if that’s even possible, by showing a plus-sized woman, and stating, “Did your wife SCARE you last night?”. So if your wife is fat…. cheat! In the second ad, they go even further stating Skinny = Good, Fat = Bad.
“We call it as we see it”.
The ad tagline: “We call it as we see it.”
The two ads alone, with their blatant insulting and rejection of overweight individuals in favor of an unrealistic physical ideal, would be bad enough. But what irks us even more is that after the first ad came out, the overweight model in question spoke out against the ads and requested that Ashley Madison not present her photo that way.
Model Jacqueline, who runs a BBW (“Big Beautiful Woman”) website called JuicyJackie.com, wrote a first-person essay for Jezebel.com, defending her body and condemning Ashley Madison’s treatment of it:
I am a size 32. I am beautiful. I think women of all sizes are beautiful. Beauty is not and has never been one-size-fits-all. I do not appreciate my image being used, without notice or permission, to tell women I have never met otherwise.
Not only is it personally offensive, Jacqueline wrote, but it sends the wrong message to viewers, particularly those who are overweight themselves:
As has been widely reported, teens are committing suicide in shocking numbers all over the world as direct result of this sort of shaming ridicule. Be it directed at race, size, sexual orientation or anything, bullying is a vicious force in this world. Contributing to this widespread and creeping depression by suggesting, blatantly and without pretense, that fat people are patently undeserving of love and loyalty is repulsive. It is incumbent upon advertisers, and society at large, to act responsibly before foisting something like this onto the world.
Ashley Madison’s response to Jacqueline’s reasonable request last week?
“The best thing that could’ve happened to this woman is that we used her in our ad. […] if she can get great publicity from this, all the power to her,” the site’s CEO told Jezebel.
And then they released the second ad today.
Are you as offended as I am?